In continuation to my post below, I write another letter. This time it is addressed to the boy that treated my friend abysmally.
Dear Mr I am too great to be wrong,
I won’t begin with the usual formalities, i.e. the “I hope
you are doing well” etc-its quite obvious that you are, given the flirtations
on your facebook page and my friend’s tears and sleepless nights. I have been
forbidden from contacting you and letting you know what I think of your
behavior and moral fabric (or complete lack of it) and so I use this platform,
hoping the message reaches you loud and clear.
I am not going to berate you or chastise you-I am quite
sympathetic towards the disabled, which you are to a great degree. My full consolations
lie with you, since it must be so difficult to survive the world without a
heart, spine and conscience. After all only a heartless person could discuss
marital home rentals with a girl and then tell her six month later that he
never loved her. Only someone spineless could let her discover through other
sources that he had moved on and was very happy with another girl. And only
someone without a conscience could tell a girl he treated atrociously time and
again over a ten year period that it was her one sided love that had ruined their friendship.
I have realized that you don’t seem to know the rules of the
game called “Love, loyalty and honesty”. And I feel duty bound to guide you,
since you have been such an important part of my friend’s life for over a
decade. Harmless flirtations are telling a girl she is pretty, and not that you
would fight the world to marry her. When you know a girl is hopelessly in love
with you and you don’t feel the same way, you don’t keep her as a backup option
until you are convinced that she isn’t the one for you. And when a girl is
trying desperately to move on and extricate herself from the highly complex web
of lies, deceit and pretense that you have spun, you don’t selfishly demand
that she treats you as a friend and throw tantrums when she disagrees.
I don’t wish to address you with negative adjectives-the
list is far too long and I have very limited time. Besides, we call out the
faults of those who accept their faults and are willing to change. Your
repetition of the same disgraceful behavior time and again, each time after a
profuse apology, has more than proved that you are either too self-deluded to
realise that you are wrong or that you
just have a different set of morals and values from the rest of the world.
Either way, the blame lies with my friend and my friend alone. She was too
naïve, too foolish and too trusting. She deserves to be in the situation that
she is in. She deserves to suffer for falling in love stupidly and staying in
love ridiculously for so long with someone who proved time and again that he
wasn’t worth even the smallest bit of it.
I am really grateful to you that your latest spate of
disgusting behavior has finally opened her eyes for good. She maybe in a hell
lot of pain now, but she is far stronger than you realise. She may initially do
stupid things to prove a point to you and your sycophantic friends, but she
will emerge out of this, a finer and braver person. She will now spend her time over more
fruitful activities and more deserving people. Besides, she has a lot to offer
to this world and so I am sure she won’t mull over a first world problem like
having her heart broken by a jerk, when she could instead help out and serve
people suffering from genuine problems and with genuine needs.
I will end this letter by saying that my best wishes lie
with you-in all the time that you have existed on this planet, you have left
behind such a long trail of agony and anguish that I can’t imagine what will
follow once your sins start catching up
with you. You will truly need a lot of wishes to cope.
Casper
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